Comments on: Physical versus Spiritual Attraction

By: andrewong2024

andrewong2024 — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 17:23:45 +0000

Caesar:

Wah… must have special customised match-making service just for you dan you happy izit??? HAhaha… Okay I see what I can do =p

But on another note… the world is big and should not exist just within the church and as a friend I encourage you to expand your world.

Dun wait for others to build in-roads for you, do it yourself, cos at the end of the day only you can better understand where you really need/want to go.

By: Caesar

Caesar — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 16:54:06 +0000

I don’t know, but seem to be no way for people to meet people, especially that kind of people who really suited. I find that Church alway put different people where they cann’t click.

By: XXX

XXX — Mon, 18 Feb 2008 16:36:37 +0000

Well, some of them look for guy who have certain ranking, CL, UL, whatever L. It’s maybe be true that they may or may not have good character. Only time can tell…
Another thing, if you willing to invest your time with him or her. Sometime, you will feel some of them are sincerely take care of their sheep. But sometime I feel they are insecure, they need some kind of control over people – or else they will feel out of place.
They are too many people who “know” the people. they never understand people. They somehow cannot stand on the point of other, and percept their view are more important. Church is not everything, but God is. Too much of the people are more focused on church than God. They say a lot of Godly characters, but they received something from God – they don’t even say thanks to God, just the nine lepers.

By: girl thoughts

girl thoughts — Sun, 17 Feb 2008 13:30:18 +0000

just throwing in two cents’ worth.

In my church, I have found that a lot of “eligible bachelors” have been attached/married to girls who look quite plain/average but these girls show inner beauty. These great brothers-in-Christ in my church have chosen these girls over better-looking / sexier girls. I used to wonder what made them choose these girls but not anymore. The girls’ character and personality have made them attractive to their mates.

On another hand, I have often heard some guys complaining that ladies did not love them because they are not rich and/or not handsome. Well, if they are going to hold this kind of attitude, no wonder they are not going places. They are having a very narrow view and making excuses for their own lack of initiative / character / personality. Women are not so shallow. I know of many girls who are pretty and yet they chose guys whom I privately thought are not even average in looks and they also don’t have tons of money. What is more important is what these guys do with the money that they do have (are they spendthrifts? do they save? are they wise in general with money and other resources? do they see long-term and plan long-term or only for short-term enjoyments?) and their character traits.

Many of these girls, according to worldly standards, can “get” richer or more handsome guys but they chose the guy with character and personality.
A case in point is my pastor Jeffrey Chong who has character and a great sense of humour, and his wife Claudia who used to be model and pretty.

By: Caesar

Caesar — Fri, 15 Feb 2008 14:36:56 +0000

I think different people look differently, some may seek Godly character man and woman, some may seek the richest, smartest or best of the best.
On the reflect, who can really judge who is more Godly character, richest, smartest or whatsoever. In the all in all, who can judge. People also can make decision based on some perception. But on another reflection, if everyone think the same way, it can be dangerous. Blessed is the God who make everyone different, and everyone unique.
Back to perception, not everyone who carry Bible are Godly christian. Not everyone who carry Gucci, or LV are the richest.
Life is a journey, only you yourself finish it. Whatever you do today, will somehow affect your tomorrow.