“Believe me, woman, the time is coming when you Samaritans will worship the Father neither here at this mountain nor there in Jerusalem.

You worship guessing in the dark; we Jews worship in the clear light of day. God’s way of salvation is made available through the Jews.

But the time is coming—it has, in fact, come—when what you’re called will not matter and where you go to worship will not matter.

“It’s who you are and the way you live that count before God. Your worship must engage your spirit in the pursuit of truth.

That’s the kind of people the Father is out looking for: those who are simply and honestly themselves before him in their worship.

God is sheer being itself—Spirit. Those who worship him must do it out of their very being, their spirits, their true selves, in adoration.”

John 4:21-24 (The Message)

A year has past since I had made my decision to transplant myself to another church.

It has been a humbling one-year period but yet spiritually enriching. 

But I would be lying if I said that it has been all plain sailing for me. Cos it hasn’t.

What I Have Missed

Two things I missed most and have had to come to terms with:

First was the close ties that I shared with people in Hope, especially my cell group/care group.

Second was the loss of ‘privileges’ that I had as a pastoral leader where I was in a position to disciple others towards loving God and fulfilling their God-given destinies as Christians.

Now at where I am, I have to re-establish ties with a new group of people from scratch and re-build the trust as well in earning the ‘privileges’ to disciple.

However, through this period of ’stepping back’, I’ve gained a paradigm shift in how the church is commonly perceived and about servant leadership.

True Kingdom Living

For instance, too often we quote “seek first His kingdom and righteousness” from Matthew 6:33 with the emphasis on prioritising church-related activities as “seeking His kingdom”. In my opinion, this is unbalanced and flawed.

The kingdom of God does not equate to the church. The kingdom of God encompasses not only the church but also beyond the four walls of the church. God is not only alive in the church but in our world that we live in.

As He dwells in us, the kingdom of God can only cover as much as we allow it; in our family or community, at our workplace or campus, and with our finances or health.

Though this shift towards kingdom living might seem to appear obvious or insignificant, but if so then it ought to drastically change the way we live our lives in representing Christ accurately.

Right Living for Right Fruits

To  further explain my point, let me share a brief testimony from  a local pastor.

He shared how he and his wife had struggled to decide whether she should resign from her job after they discovered she was pregnanted with their second child.

What made the decision a challenge was because the wife was a long-serving personal assistant to the senior pastor of their church. Hence, her role was considered important to the leader and the church.

But with faith rooted in kingdom-living, they were convicted of their intentions in desiring to fulfill their role as godly parents and believed that having more time with their children would be the right thing for them to do for the kingdom’s sake (and not the church’s sake).

Obviously, they had their senior pastor’s support and blessings, and today they have four happy children.

I can’t imagine how things would have turned out if they had adopted the unbalanced ”seek first His kingdom” approach in making their decision.

As another famous local preacher said, “The right believing will produce the right living.”

Question to ask ourselves: “Is our walk and faith based on kingdom-living or church-living?”

Let’s pray that we will be able to differiente one from the other.

A sneak peek into one of our wedding photo shoot outfits- our Manchester United jerseys. What can I say?? We’re die-hard fans =p

Can’t believe it!?? Counting down to 130 more days before I sacrifice lose my single-hood for good. Ha ha…

Every week or any other day, couples have to crack their brains to find the next best place to go for a date.

I believe that going on dates is something very important to keep the romance alive for every couple. This is especially challenging considering that we’re living in tiny island Singapore.

Hence, I have compiled my own list of recommended places for dating places that my girlfriend and I had found enjoyable and memorable.

Hope this suggestions and tips are useful. And if you have your own recommendations, please do share with us.

Here are my seven recommended dating places:

1. Danga Mall at Johor Bahru

The highlight of this isn’t the mall but the trip getting there. Danga Mall offers shoppers a nostlagis train ride experience from Tanjong Pager train station Singapore on the KTM train. Train schedule available here>>>.

Upon reaching Danga Mall, you may decide to venture off to familar places like City Square Mall. Shopping is also a good bet for the ladies, so this will be a happy dating experience where the guys will be more appreciated by the carrying of her shopping bags. Ha ha…

2. Singapore Botanic Gardens

This is ’secret’ venue that offers much variety of activities for a date. The lush greenery of nature makes it a great place for a picnic. If not, there are a number of F&B outlets that offers a good ambience in any time of the day.

What I enjoy are the day or night outdoor performances that are offered almost every other week. Most are complimentary, so do check out their events calendar here>>>.

3. Mount Faber

The best time for a date at this high point is in the evening where the city lights and stars glitter as a romantic backdrop to set your date on the right note.

At Mount Faber, you can choose from taking a walk, to a dinner or even a ride in the cable car. If what you desire is for a relaxing and enjoyable experience, this is the place.

4. Morton’s of Chicago

This fine-dining American steakhouse serves one of the finest steaks in the world. But at a hefty price of course. However, not many know that Morton’s also serves mouth-watering delectable desserts such as their air-flown New York Cheesecake and Godiva Chocolate cake.

Visit Morton’s for a dessert treat after 9pm. At this time, the restaurant is mostly empty and quiet for a great ambience. And if its your birthday, the crew of servers will even throw in a birthday song and a souvenir to remember your day.

5. The Singapore Flyer

For Singaporeans, this place is only worth one visit and that is the day when it falls on either one of your partners’ birthday. Birthday promotion entitles the birthday guy/lady 50% off for his/her ticket. So you only pay 75% for a pair of tickets.

The 30-min ride in the capsule does make a nice and romantic experience for a date. But provided you take it in the evening when the city lights come on. And on the promotion, please do contact them to verify on promotions.

6. The Wine Company@Evans Road

Last on this list is another dining place that is tucked away quietly along Evans road.  This has become not only my favourite place for date, but for group gatherings.

The Wine Company’s branch at Evans offers indoor and outdoor choice of ambience. What I really like about this place is the quality and price of its food which I would describe as value for money. Do check this place out. You won’t be disappointed!

The last quarter of the year is usually the season of weddings where many of us have to attend dinner banquets.

Here’s a funny but useful guide to refer to for those who are clueless on the amount to give for your ‘ang pow(s)’:

Source: Unknown. But I think it was printed in 8 Days Magazine in May 2009.

Please kindly note that the ‘ang pow’ amount is subjected to changes with inflation. Ha ha…

My Doodling:

Found this shop called “Just 1 Book tucked in a corner at the underground Dhoby Xchange at Dhoby Ghaut MRT station. I think this is cool cos you can download free softwares to design your own lovey dovey calendars, cards, photobooks and canvas paintings. And of cos, printing must pay lar… but I feel that the cost is still reasonable since the quantity is likely to be on a small scale.

My Read of the Month:

Covenant Marriage by Gary ChapmanTitle: Covenant Marriage: Building Communication & Intimacy
Author: Gary Chapman
Published: 2003
Genre: Christian Living/Relationships
Ratings: 4.5 out of 5 stars

Dr. Gary Chapman is “Dr. Love” to the Christian community who also authored the best-selling “The Five Languages of Love”.

In this book, he presents how communication and intimacy are two of the most important aspects in developing a successful covenant marriage. And practising covenant marriage means couples must offer each other steadfast loyalty, forgiveness, empathy, and commitment to resolving conflict so as to encourage each other in spiritual growth.

I like the way he presents his book- very organised and systematic. More importantly, he appears to be well-informed and well-balanced in his message and advices. His delivery makes the reader feel comfortable in his non-condescending approach.

I particular enjoyed chapter eight of the book- “Getting to know yourself: Experiences and what they mean”. Here he explains how we are uniquely different in the way we interpret our experiences which greatly influences both our emotions and our behaviour. Hence, understanding this and the differences between a couple will help prepare us in sharing our lives with our spouse.

Dr. Chapman reminds us that life is more than having a good marriage and ought not to be an end in itself. He writes to encourage readers that the ultimate call is not the call to develop a good marriage, but to be a disciple of Jesus Christ.

Who should read it: Highly recommended for couples getting married or who are married.

For a long time, our environment with its climate change issues had never gotten the degree of attention that it rightfully deserves.

This apathy especially among key leaders of governments and businesses had been mainly displaced by other concerns such as competition, economical growth, innovation and technology.

However, all that is changing and for a number of reasons. One of those reasons- the need for self-preservation on every level of societal.

Awakening to our environment

There’s an interesting French proverb- “Fish discover water last” that succinctly illustrates the kind of relationship we have with our environment.

For fish, water simply is it’s environment. It surrounds them. They are so immersed in its presence that they are unaware of its existence- until it becomes polluted or non-existent.

When that happens, the immediate consequence makes it apparent that quality water is essential for their well-being. Without it, the fish will die.

Similarly, we as humans are finally discovering our high dependency on our environment with the dramatic developments that have surrounded climate change.

Now, the world is in stark realisation that our environment is vital to our own well-being just as water is to a fish. Without our environment, we will ultimately self-destruct.

Our future by 2050

According to the United Nations (UN), our global population is projected to swell from 2.5 billion to 9 billion by 2050.

That amounts to adding two Chinas to the number of people alive today who will be seeking food, water and other resources on this earth where, scientists say, who are already shaping our climate and the web of life.

For instance, China and India are presently dominating the demand for energy in Asia. China alone accounts for 40 per cent of primary energy needs and responsible for 60 per cent of carbon emissions.

At this rate, we can expect energy demands to double; using twice the energy. And with our source of energy mainly based on a fossil fuel economy, this will have a negative impact on our environment.

With our growing insatiable consumption for all of earth’s natural resources, 2050 is not very far away for us to max out our planet and destroy ourselves.

Taking environmental issues in our context

At this point, I would like to invite readers to think for a moment:

What would become of nations when there is a depleting supply of staple food such as rice or corn?

Would countries that cultivate them supply and export to their neighbours?

What happens when supplies of other neighbouring countries run dry and they see producing countries having supply?

From the likes of how oil is globally distributed, I think it is safe to say that countries with natural supplies will likely protect and hoard their resources for self-gain and to provide for their own countrymen.

Like how the many wars had erupted in the Middle East region over the supply of oil, we, therefore cannot not rule out the possible threat of wars among nations vying for natural resources in bid to survive.

Now, imagine that we have arrived at 2050 with global natural resources depleted and tagged with sky-rocketing prices due to high demand.

What would become of Singapore as a country that imports almost all of its natural resources and has none to its name?

You tell me.

“Sustainable Development is development that meets the needs of the present without compromising the ability of future generations to meet their own needs.”

~ The Bruntland Report (1987)


“Wherever we are, we act with respect to exert a positive impact on people and on the limited resources of our planet to ensure long-term profitability

~ Common ground statement at the Future Search workshop (2008)


Sustainable development goes beyond the environment. It is basically an approach that says you should not take away more than you add- to the world’s resources and environment, as well as to the well-being of the people who work for you.”

~ Quoted from the Review of The Straits Times (2009)